During the festive time, when there is so much going on that even energetic individuals may occasionally anticipate the calm break in January, it is very easy to forget things. I'm sure I'm not the sole one who has ever felt jolted back to reality while at my desk by an inquiry by a friend asking, "What time are we expected us later?" Don't worry; if you're absent minded, or just prone to spontaneous gatherings, I have your back.
First and foremost, though I can't stress it enough, if you have planned long in advance versus only a short while, the best events tend to be the easiest. What anyone is hoping for is engaging talks, a drink to sip, plus sufficient to eat so they do not end up chewing an arm off on the ride home. If you're not you're throwing a lavish ball, nobody expects extensive drinks, Michelin-starred food or a live band.
The greatest gatherings tend to be the simplest. Still, an idea is useful to cover up the fact you've only put the event on while coming after a long day.
Still, an overarching idea works well to conceal the fact you have only thrown the party on on the way home from work. And by theme, I mean for example Christmas. Going slightly more detailed (Scandinavian Christmas, for instance, featuring mulled wine, aromatic cocktail, smoked fish plus flatbreads, folk tunes selection; or fiesta-style party, including traditional drink, chilled brews or tequila drinks, and lots of corn chips, tomato dip & green spread, and festive music in the background) can narrow your choices on the upcoming grocery run.
While shopping, choose a couple of drinks (one alcoholic if you drink, a non-alcoholic one for some don't want to) and a couple of snacks that fit your concept, and purchase a generous amount within your budget, instead of worrying about providing too much choice. No thing looks more welcoming and cheerful as plenty – I would always rather to be welcomed with a container full of iced containers with reasonably priced crémant or cava over a small serving with expensive bubbly. (Include a few bags for chilling, as well; there is seldom plenty of ice.)
If you feel the need to show off and offer a mixed drink, then mix in advance a sizable amount in a jug so you're not stuck faffing around with preparation while you ought to be socializing. After starting, ask a partner or friend to watch it then replenish when needed until it's finished. Follow suit with the non-alcoholic punch; people enjoy to have a task while socializing so they can experience a share of positive vibes.
On the punch front, whatever formula you go for (you can find plenty on the internet), steer clear of anything excessively sweet – children there need kid-friendly options – and should you own one, plonk aromatic bitters close by (avoid adding them in the mix as they're not suitable for those abstaining from drinks entirely). Put in some work with how it looks so the soft punch doesn't feel neglected; just spend a minute to slice some slices of citrus for garnish.
In my view, I would avoid the store-bought platters of "party foods" available in supermarkets seasonally; they seem fancy, and often involve turning the oven on (if you choose to do this, remember that all guests quietly prefers toasted bread or mini sausages anyway). I'm convinced nothing beats a couple of large containers with tasty snacks (plain salted will offend no one), and, provided there are no allergies, one of those great-value containers with nuts available in the international aisle of supermarkets, and maybe a few ready-to-eat olives as a garnish (it's best to avoid to find pits around the house in the future).
In case, as my mother says, you feel snacks substantial fare, a single large piece of tasty cheese on a platter and crispbreads plus beautifully placed fruit always looks visually appealing. A platter with some preserved or ready-to-eat salami or salmon displayed on it (just one sort, except if money is no object), or a handsome store-bought tart, similar to that pop up on deli counters during festivities, is even more substantial, and you really will succeed with homestyle slices of flatbread, because they don't need additional preparation.
Elara is a seasoned strategist with over a decade of experience in corporate leadership and military tactics.